Blog by- Dr.Jaya Kumar.
Sometimes we lose our patience for a simple reason that our trust and faith has been broken.
Though we have had many chances by being very patient earlier, but at some point of time when there is a breach of trust, we are left shaken and saddened.
A big question strikes our mind continuously. How much time we can give to the other person (s)?
The time may be given by us out of respect and hope but if we donot get a positive response we are disheartened.
Sometimes when we observe the happenings around us, something strikes us.
Was the person who lost his patience in a particular situation absolutely wrong?
No wrong and invalid act can be justified with excuses and reasons.
There may be some validity in his points too.
Maybe the view point put up by him was totally and completely justified.
Yes, losing patience at times is a condemnable act, but let us also think of the person who himself lost his peace of mind because of other's mistakes.
Losing patience shall directly effect his mindset too.
So, as a person we should not give anyone a chance to lose his or her patience for valid reasons.
Disturbing someone's peace of mind too is a very demeaning act.
If we linger on with the problem and not solve it then definitely more problems shall follow.
Therefore it is better to cut short any dispute, problem or a pending work which involves other people.
Why should inefficiency of other effect someone else?
What is the need to test someone's patience for long?
The other person may just need your assurance and implementation of your promises within the promised time frame for establishing cordial relations and a cordial environment.
A peaceful, unified, happy and a harmonious atmosphere is unmatchable.
Let us try to maintain this in our lives, always.
The words and views expressed in my blogs are personal and are my original work of thoughts.
Though we have had many chances by being very patient earlier, but at some point of time when there is a breach of trust, we are left shaken and saddened.
A big question strikes our mind continuously. How much time we can give to the other person (s)?
The time may be given by us out of respect and hope but if we donot get a positive response we are disheartened.
Sometimes when we observe the happenings around us, something strikes us.
Was the person who lost his patience in a particular situation absolutely wrong?
No wrong and invalid act can be justified with excuses and reasons.
There may be some validity in his points too.
Maybe the view point put up by him was totally and completely justified.
Yes, losing patience at times is a condemnable act, but let us also think of the person who himself lost his peace of mind because of other's mistakes.
Losing patience shall directly effect his mindset too.
So, as a person we should not give anyone a chance to lose his or her patience for valid reasons.
Disturbing someone's peace of mind too is a very demeaning act.
If we linger on with the problem and not solve it then definitely more problems shall follow.
Therefore it is better to cut short any dispute, problem or a pending work which involves other people.
Why should inefficiency of other effect someone else?
What is the need to test someone's patience for long?
The other person may just need your assurance and implementation of your promises within the promised time frame for establishing cordial relations and a cordial environment.
A peaceful, unified, happy and a harmonious atmosphere is unmatchable.
Let us try to maintain this in our lives, always.
The words and views expressed in my blogs are personal and are my original work of thoughts.
Appreciable thought.
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