Inspiring Leadership

 A big change and a breakthrough came in shape of the non-political interview of our Prime Minister with Bollywood actor. Both the personalities are self made and have a very inspiring and interesting background.

It is not being a follower or supporter of our Prime Minister but surely his simplicity and story of his hardships and struggles left a deep impact.

As a citizen of this democratic country where every individual has right of speech and expression to express their  opinion, it is really a matter of pride that we are being headed by a personality who really holds an influential aura.

The truth, simplicity and motivational lines by him held such relevance and truth behind them. A unique and special style of explaining his experiences.

 He held a sense of pride and confidence in telling the truth and facts of life with giving a keen value to discipline and hard work.

After carefully listening to him a sense of confidence surely generated. Maybe as an individual if we too start self analysis with a positive energy for improvement and follow discipline and hard work as a mantra of life, nothing could be impossible and unachievable.

Surely, a positive and Inspiring leadership shall take us to the path of building a strong, progressive and prosperous nation.

Article by-Dr Jaya Kumar.

The words and views expressed in my blogs are personal and are my original work of thoughts.

Respect Your Elders..

BliB by-Dr Jaya Kumar.

When we are young and energetic we tend to be occupied in our lives and works so much that we forget that we have responsibilities  towards our elders.

The responsibilities which we have to fullfil wholeheartedly and happily.

Our elders need our love, care and support.

We have to balance our lives between our younger generation and older generation.

We should feel fortunate that we have our elders with us to bless us. They just need our time, affection and care to lead a blissful life.

Though, if we look at the situation in reality we would find that most of the elders are self sufficient and never let their children get disturbed because of them. 

They have just silent little wish which they keep in their hearts. The silence and wish to be loved, respected and cared. The wish to be with their children and getting a loving protection. 

Our elders are like our protectors who at this point of their lives need our protection and loving support. It is our duty and responsibility to take good care of them with the most humble and humane approach.

The happiness of our elders shall surely be the most precious asset for us.

The words and views expressed in my blogs are personal and are my original work of thoughts.

Teachings of Personal Life.

Blog by-Dr Jaya Kumar.

The teachings which we learn from our own life experiences are the best lessons of our life. Our personal experiences teaches us so many things which can't be learnt from anywhere.

It gives us the lesson of trust and believe.

It too imparts us with the teachings of how to walk on the difficult path of this life.

Many times we shall fall but every experience behind it shall make us more strong to rise and shine again.

To walk head high towards the path of achieving our identity in this world.

The teachings which taught us to distinguish between correct and wrong.

Personal experiences are like encyclopedia of our lives together joining us to be cautious for future.

At the same time, if we carefully read all the chapters of our lives, it shall give us the answers to all our questions.

The confusion which grips everyone of us at some point of time shall have a solution in our own experiences.

Practically, if we do analysis of our lives we shall conclude that we are standing all alone and our hardships are only ours.

The world which we see from our own eyes is the real world.

So, it is ourself, our experiences and teachings learnt from our own experiences which shall help us to move on in this world as an individual identity.

The words and views expressed in my blogs are personal and are my original work of thoughts.

Respect the Lady of the House

Blog by-Dr Jaya Kumar.

Respect the lady of the house. The house which is made of just bricks and cement becomes a home with the love and compassion a lady adds to the house.

The lady who sometimes silently goes through so much of suffering and pain but still do her level best to keep everyone in the house happy.

Infact, we should respect the ladies who as homemakers are doing their level best in making their homes a happy home.

Every responsibilities are full filled with true heart and soul. But many times the lady of the house is not giving her due respect. 

In today's society also where we talk about women empowerment, ladies are treated merely as door mats.

Their smiles and silence is regarded as their weakness to tolerate every humiliation irrespective of doing such a great job.

The man of the house has to have a very balanced personality to understand the in-depth pain of the smiling face.

Life is beautiful only with each other's support and care. The argument is not that who is superior or inferior but the real issue is the essence of love, respect and trust.

The words and views expressed in my blogs are personal and are my original work of thoughts.

Never Stop Growing.

Blog by-Dr Jaya Kumar.

Some days are very bright and beautiful days of our lives but few days are very dark. The darker days seems to be too long. It seems like we have reached a dead end in our lives.

Life seems to be too difficult to handle. In this situation one thing which may give us power to continue is the motivation to 'never stop growing'.

Every difficult situation in our lives, suddenly helps us to grow even more strong, tough and mature.

We are able to understand the dark realities of life even more and much better.

The wish and will to grow from every possible situation ignites our inner strength. When the days are rosy, we tend to become carefree. But the hard and harsh days of our lives makes us realize the importance of growth. 

Let us  grab the opportunity to grow up and face the world with a new perspective in every possible way.

The words and views expressed in my blogs are personal and are my original work of thoughts.

One day at a time.

Blog by-Dr Jaya Kumar.

Let us take life the way it comes to us. Actually everything is planned before hand. So, in reality we are no one to decide on or plan future. Our fate and all the happenings which have occurred or has to happen has fixed time to it.

Worrying too much about the past, present and future shall lead us to nowhere. It is not we who has to decide. Our only role is to act and work hard to make things better.

Even if the things gets worse, can we really do something? Becoming self guilty or blaming oneself without one's fault shall only broke us from inside.

It shall be self harm without any conclusion. Our existence to the world is till the time we are standing strong. Otherwise, may be we shall be left alone in this world by the people who we had so much of faith in.

So, let time takes it's own course.

The words and views expressed in my blogs are personal and are my original work of thoughts.

Ego can destroy your relationship.

Blog by-Dr Jaya Kumar.

Ego is such a small word but can destroy your whole world. It can even ruin your relationship.

As a person when we are under the grip of ego, we cannot distinguish between what is right and what is wrong.

We start following the self destructive path towards achieving nothing. We ruin our mental peace and health. We are not ready to listen to anyone at any cost.

We take everything as negative and start hating even our most precious and valuable relationship.

Ego can even kill us from inside and can kill everything we possess. But, still we are not ready to accept our faults at any cost.

Life is really too short. So, let us throw away ego from our lives before it destroy our happy world.

The words and views expressed in my blogs are personal and are my original work of thoughts.

Smile is the most precious asset

Blog by-Dr Jaya Kumar.

Smile is the most precious asset in our lives. Smile is the most valuable thing one can possess in life.

Smile is not just a word but it holds a very deeper and in-depth meaning to it.

If we carefully make an analysis, we shall surely conclude that life without a smile seems to be a heavy burden.

Surely because of some circumstances it really becomes difficult to smile but it is not impossible.

A smile gives you inner strength and power to fight with all the problems of life. The ups and downs of life can easily be taken as a challenge when we know the art to smile.

So let us gift and spread smile wherever we go. A smile can really bring a huge difference in someone's life and can ignite a spark of positivism and energy.

The words and views expressed in my blogs are personal and are my original work of thoughts.

Life is beautiful

Blog by-Dr Jaya Kumar.

Yes, it is so true that life is beautiful. Though sometimes we feel that life is a burden. It becomes very hard to deal with everyday troubles and tribulations.But,if we closely look at it ,we shall conclude that life is really beautiful.

Life is beautiful because we are alive to start it again with a fresh and positive attitude. The energy which we lacked before could be brought together and combined with a dynamic force to bounce back as a lion. A Lion whose roar is fearless.

Our life is ours. No one has any right to question our individuality till we are leading a responsible life as an individual.

Few days back I was listening to a song 'Selfish Hoke Apne leye Jiyoo Na'. Though the word selfish is always taken in a negative manner but to live a respectable life is not being negative. To demand respect is not selfish. To have your own opinion is not being negative.

Negative is our approach towards those who wish to lead a beautiful and peaceful life. Why can't we accept that every individual is different with a unique personality and thought process.

Let us respect everyone the way we wish to be respected. We should be ready to accept our faults and try not to dictate or influence other person.

We all have right to live a burden free life. Life which is so beautiful.

The words and views expressed in my blogs are personal and are my original work of thoughts.