HUMAN OR RELATION...

A great philosopher rightly said, "Man is born free, but he is everywhere in chains".
This chain is the chain of relationships. A chain of responsibilities.
Responsibility of not your own self, but of other's.
These responsibilities and relationships which we are sometimes not fulfilling lovingly but are
just doing formalities or obligations for one another.
Why do I think so? It is because, if these would have had that warmth and love in it, the saying would have been," Humans are born free, but everywhere he is bonded by love and affection."
The chain signifies the feeling to please let me free myself, I am getting hurt. I am obliged to be in the chain. Be in the captivity of the chain.
My freedom is wrapped-up and I am overpowered by this chain.
The point of reference is that we could also imagine this chain as a sign of unity and strength.
The thought is so beautiful and blissful and the feeling, perfect.
If this is true then I must say that life will be beautiful. But practically, it is not to be.
We are humans first. We forget this. We judge others by our relationship and leave aside the human value.
I believe that we are all humans first and that relations get their due respect, only if they deserve.
Otherwise, as a human being we have different responsibilities.
We cannot judge someone by his or her age or experience.
The younger people could also be correct and the older could be wrong and vice-a-versa.
But, this thought shall be only respected when we deal with each-other as humans   not relations.

The chain can be beautiful only if you are ready to change your perspective.

 ONLY SELFLESS RELATIONS CAN  BE PIOUS AND GROWING RELATION.

SELFISH RELATIONS ARE A BIG BURDEN.

A PERSON WHO KNOWS THE ART OF HUMAN RELATIONS, LEADS A LIFE WORTH REMEMBERING....

RELATIONSHIPS....

Relationships: what a beautiful and wonderful word with millions of sentiments attached to it.
But what are we sometimes  doing with it?
Just ruining the beautiful sentiments and value of love and care attached to it by trying to prove ourselves correct even if we are wrong. We, sometimes, just take our relationships for granted.
We even take those relatives very casually who are there, since childhood, sincere towards every relation.
Those who feel really happy for others, always.
Those who do not do things because they have interest in it but do it because they are so happy in other's happiness and success.
We sometimes, unknowingly, just ruin the piousness of a beautiful relationship.
We grow old in age but unfortunately show our immaturity in handling our relationships.
So, let us open our eyes and senses to start valuing relationships honestly and sincerely. Otherwise, the person who has given respect to everyone because of his or her goodness, shall show you your true selfish side and then embarrassingly you will not even find a little space in this whole wide world to hide your face.
IF YOU HAVE SELF DOUBT, IT COULD BE YOU TOO... IF YOU THINK YOU ARE FOOLING OTHER'S. THINK TWICE. MAYBE OTHER PERSON IS REALLY A NICE SOUL WHO HAS BEEN QUIET SINCE CHILDHOOD.

JUST DO NOT TEST PATIENCE OF A TRUE AND GOOD HUMAN BEING AND DO NOT HURT TRUE RELATIONSHIPS....


IF YOU ARE SELF CONFIDENT THAT I AM THE PERSON WHO KNOWS THE VALUE OF TRUE RELATIONSHIPS, YOU AS A HUMAN BEING MUST BE THE MOST SELF SATISFIED SOUL AND PERSON WITH PURE HEART. YOU ARE REALLY BLESSED CHILD OF GOD.

WAKE UP!!!! TIME IS RUNNING....

Time runs so fast. Sometimes when we close our eyes and go in a deep thought, we feel that time  really flies so fast.
We feel the value and worth of time that very moment.
We might also start feeling that we have been sleeping for too long and that now time has come for us to wake from that 'deep sleep'.
The 'deep sleep' was our indiscipline, casual approach, negative thoughts, lack of physical work or may be discussions about irrelevant things in life.
The list of things is too long and may differ from person to person according to situations and conditions.
But it is sure that somewhere we all take the time we have and even our lives for granted.
When, if inspite of the conditions we are in, we do not realise or are not ready to accept the reality, then it may be fine. Then we are not living life but are merely leading it.
But if at any point of time we start realising any aspect we were lacking in the true value of relationships and our real purpose of life, from that moment let us wake up. Wake up to not waste even a single second.
Time is running very fast, let us try to catch it.
No one knows what is in store for us in the future, but as a human being, we have some responsibilities towards ourselves also.
We shall atleast be self-satisfied that we woke up before it was too late or it was never to be.
REMEMBER THAT WE HAVE ONLY ONE LIFE TO LIVE, SO LET US VALUE IT'S WORTH.

WRAPPING PAPER AND LIFE .....

A wrapping paper beautifies our gift. Presentation does matter. How we wrap a beautiful wrapping paper around a gift is of high significance.
Just like we know that the first impression is the last impression. So is the case of a wrapping paper.
Seeing a beautifully wrapped gift we can guess the value and worth of the gift inside it.
But if the gift is not worth, we feel cheated by the beautiful wrapping paper.
There is a strong connection between the wrapping paper and our lives.
The way we carry ourselves. Our personalities. Our outlook and approach.
Our words and actions all should be like a beautiful wrapping paper.
Our body is like a gift wrapped in a beautiful wrapping paper which should be of values, ethical approach, affection and sentiments.
Our wrapping paper should look good from both outside and inside. It should have eternal beauty and strength.We should not feel cheated with our outer wrapping paper.
THINK ABOUT YOUR PRECIOUS ACTIONS AND START WORKING ON YOUR PRESENT. THE ETERNAL GIFT WRAPPED SHALL BECOME BLISSFUL AND WORTH LIVING.

PERSONALITIES DO MATTER.....

Personality does influence your choice and decision.
Personalities do matter.
A good personality makes a mark.
What you are is proven by the way you carry your personality.
Personalities of others also have an impact on you.
It is better to be in a company of people who have an influencing personality rather than to be with people who have no input in your growth.
It is impossible for us to choose our relatives but we have to be cautious as to whom we keep our relationships and friendships.
Those relationships that are a true relation from the heart with affection, concern and respect.
To have our personal growth, it is better to read inspiring books, autobiographies of different people who have influenced society in many ways or to be in contact with people who have an inspiring personality.
Our thoughts and the company we keep does effect us as a person.
It is up to us to realise whether we want our growth or to have a stagnant approach towards life.
WE ALL ARE INTELLIGENT PEOPLE... WE SHOULD USE OUR INTELLIGENCE FOR SELF GROWTH AND PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT.

MY DEAR WORK....

When we have a lot of work, we feel burdened. We sometimes feel exhausted and even tired of doing so much of work.
But, do we ever realise how lucky and fortunate we have been?
Work is worship and the reason and purpose of our existence.
When we are working, we get so involved in our work that we do not have time to think of other things in our lives.
Especially the negativity keeps a distance from us since we do not have time to even think about it.
Work, gives us an opportunity to prove our worth and identity.
Work not only helps us in our mental growth but also by default, keeps us physically active.
The more we work the more we gain maturity and experience in life.
We become more responsible. We start understanding and respecting other people's hard work and the true essence of dignity of labour when have work in our hands and are really involved in it. In this context, we should also be thankful to God to make our life purpose full.
We should remember the beautiful opportunity we get by working which some others are missing.
So, never complain that you have work to do.
Be grateful that you are the chosen one to do that particular work.
ENJOY YOUR WORK AND MAKE YOUR WORK WORTH REMEMBERING.

RULES OF LIFE....

Life is very beautiful. But, it also has some rules which we all have to follow. Follow the guidelines of life. Life always gives us some codes of conduct. An ethical approach towards life has to be followed.
Some principles of conducting our lives are as follows:
Life is to live and let others live.
We cannot change the world according to our requirement or in our ways, so it is better to change our approach towards life and people around us.
An approach to lead our life as per our own terms.
To value our privacy. To value our opinion and principles.
Life has a different set of rules for different people since all human beings are different.
So, let us be different in our lives. If life certifies you as good and passes you with a distinction, it means that your life was worth living.
FOLLOW THE RULES OF LIFE ACCORDING TO YOUR APTITUDE AND THE BEHAVIOR YOU LIKE..

IT SHALL BE TOO LATE...

If we do not take care about ourselves, it shall be too late.
If we ignore our health over other non-relevant things in life, it may be too late.
If we do not value our true relations today then we will not have them with us tomorrow.
If we ignore good advice and opinion today, no one shall be ready to show us the correct path tomorrow.
Life always gives us a second chance, but, if we take that second chance casually, then there may not be any last chance left for us.
SO START FROM TODAY.  TOMORROW NEVER COMES.  ACT AND UNDERSTAND  NOW... OTHERWISE IT SHALL BE TOO LATE....

INSURANCE....

Investments should be diversified. Insurance should be good to invest in. Insurance gives social security. Insurance makes your life more comfortable.
Insurance can be financial.
Insurance can be spiritual.
It can be of life or of material.
It always pays back. If we invest thoughtfully, the return shall be fruitful.
Business or personal, every investment should be calculated, true, correct and transparent.
BE INSURED.... BE SECURED..

TREAT EVERYONE RIGHT...

Think before you speak. Think, if you are treating the other person correctly. Does the other person deserve the treatment meted to him.
Relationships are very vital and necessary.
But, maybe, because of this sometimes, people take their own relatives lightly and do not hesitate to treat them casually.
In fact, we should be close to only those people who treat us respectfully. Those who understand our feelings and thoughts.
Specially, if we have that sentiment to understand other's pain and suffering. We are happy in the other person's happiness and success.
We should always be particular to keep those people close to us who are positive and enhance your personality as an individual. Those who are genuinely happy for you and appreciate your small , loving and caring efforts done everytime..
BE A TRUE HUMAN...

NEVER SPEND TIME... USE TIME....

Time is very precious. It is the most valuable thing we have. Respect time. Never spend time without a purpose. Use it to the fullest. Use it to our highest potential.
Spending time is just passing of time. To make proper use of it is to have it's proper worth. Time used wisely is worth living. Life is about using time to achieve the purpose of living.
Time can be used in any way and according to one's own choice. But, it is the proper utilisation of the same that should matter. Time is nothing but our moments spent as living beings on this earth. Try to make proper use of it.
Only then we would Cherish every moment of life.
VALUE TIME...AS IT WILL NOT WAIT FOR ANYONE..

RESPECT YOURSELF...

Do not allow anyone to disrespect you at any cost. You are an individual who has an identity of your own.
A person who respects oneself is always proud of oneself.
Do not hesitate to even correct people who come in the path of your progress and success.
Disrespect or disregard to oneself should not be taken lightly. One should make other people realise one's value and worth. People will appreciate you more for this and shall take you more seriously.
Respect your own decisions and your privacy.
Always respect other people's feelings and emotions but value your feelings even more.
START LOVING YOURSELF.

CARE...

Care of your health...
Care of yourself...
Care of your loved ones...
Care to obey your duties as citizens.
Care to perform your responsibilities well.
Care to deeply appreciate the efforts of others.
Care to nurture your child with good values.
Care to live and let live.
Care to value all sentiments expressed.
Care of everyone around you.
Care to lead a life which has a meaning and a purpose.
CARE IS A DEEP FEELING. IT IS AN EMOTION AND A SENTIMENT. CARE IS LOVE AND AFFECTION.
CARE IS ONE'S CONCERN REGARDING THINGS IN LIFE.
TAKE CARE...

ENJOYMENT....

Enjoyment can be found anywhere and everywhere. A person can enjoy oneself anytime.
Enjoyment can come from any source. Enjoyment can be by being alone or in the company of your loved ones.
Enjoyment has no barriers. Enjoyment has no time. We can enjoy any moment which comes in our lives.
Enjoyment can be both inner and outer.
We can enjoy to our inner soul with the work we really love to do.
At the outer level, we can enjoy every situation with a smile.
Enjoyment to live this life. To be able to handle all situations. To ensure that we are enjoying our life first. We have to be satisfied in every situation and we will find happiness in even the smallest of things in our life.
SO ENJOY YOUR LIFE....

NATURE IS BEAUTIFUL....

God loves us...
To prove it, He's made all the beauties of majestic mountains. Free flowing rivers and streams. Pleasure of nature for us to enjoy.
To enjoy the blessings of God. To feel the fresh air.
Nature you are so powerful and effective.
You rejuvenates us. Thank you so much for being with us.
WE FEEL SO PROTECTED WITH YOU AROUND US.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY...

Happy Birthday my life..
God bless you my life...
Be happy for life...
Have Wellness and Happiness for ever.
Whenever we get up in the morning, it is like our Birthday...
So, wishes to our life for giving us rebirth everyday.
To wake us up with Happiness and Health.
To take care of us every moment.
To wish for us and make us feel so special.
Every day we should thank God for blessing us with a new life and immense opportunities.
A life to do good things. A life to live and learn.
We know that we have only one life.
SO LET US LIVE IT FULLY AND NOT JUST LEAD IT. LIFE SHOULD HAVE A REAL PURPOSE. A PURPOSE TO CHERISH IT AND VALUE IT FOREVER...