Thursday, 12 July 2018

Do not change the Rule Book..

Blog by-Dr Jaya Kumar.


How can it be possible? The possibility of changing rules according to one's choice and convenience. Yes, in personal lives we all are bound with some rules and regulations. They can be spoken or unspoken. Even can be governed by love and affection for maintaining a happy and a cordial environment in the family.
When everyone in the family are performing their assigned duties, they become a valuable contributor in making a beautiful family. Do we realize that when we change the rules according to our wishes and start following the self- centered approach with imposing our opinions, we shatter our own peace and loving bond we were living with. A thin line between respect and fear breaks. We start avoiding each other.
The family which used to smile together becomes an atomic unit. The distance and differences starts building up.


So, let us respect the feelings and freedom of each other. We, as a family should understand each other's pain. We have to be caring not dominating. We have to develop a strong mutual respect for each and every member of the family. Listen, seek advice and be patient towards your loved ones.
A beautiful equilibrium of opinions and suggestions should be maintained for a long time bond of love and affection between every family member. 


The words and views expressed in my blogs are personal and are my original work of thoughts.

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