Life Is Beautiful

Blog by-Dr Jaya Kumar.

Life is very beautiful. It also has some rules which we all have to follow. To follow the guidelines of life which always gives us some codes of conduct. An ethical approach towards life has to be followed.
Some principles of conducting our lives have to be pursued from the heart.
Life is for oneself to live and let others live too.
We cannot change the world according to our own requirements or in our ways. It is therefore better to change our approach towards life and towards the people around us.
An approach to lead our lives as per our own terms.
To value our own privacy and to value our opinion and principles.
Life also has a different set of rules for different people since all human beings are distinctly different too.

Let us become different in the way we imagine and live our lives. If in the process life certifies us as good and passes us with a distinction, it means that our life was worth living.
Follow the rules of lives according to our aptitude and the behaviour we like.
We have to though, surely remember one thing, and that is, to not to hurt anyone in this life.
We may not be able to see the tears of others but one day could come when tears could even sink your life in the ocean of sadness.
Therefore, let us thoughtfully and with the most clear heart lead this loving beautiful life given by God.

The words and views expressed in my blogs are personal and are my original work of thoughts.

Sridevi- May her soul rest in peace.

Blog by-Dr Jaya Kumar.

Surprise! Surprise! Life is full of surprises. Every time we step out of our homes big surprises await us. Surprises to lead and live a new day of life.
How shall we live the new day of our life is what we all plan well in advance to welcome that new day of our lives.
What is in-store for us in future is not really predictable.
We all recently got an unpleasant surprise of our lives.
More than an unpleasant surprise it was a shocking news.
One of the leading actors of bollywood, the beautiful, gorgeous and super talented Sridevi, left for her heavenly abode and bid good bye to this world.
She left this world leaving behind her kids, her husband and millions of fans who loved and appreciated her so dearly.
A husband with whom she must have promised to live and grow together longer. Children for whom she had so many dreams.

She was taken away after suffering from a severe cardiac arrest and then everything was over.
All responsibilities, love, care, affection and promises were left behind.
What is left is a blank phase for her family and fans. If one calmly sits down to think, life is really too short.
Too short to even do those so many things we keep planning for our future.
Each one of us must have felt so sad. Our heartfelt sympathies for her family.

May her beautiful soul rest in peace. Life is to live for 'The Moment'. To live life with happiness and to value every loving bond, affection, opportunities and warmth of our attachments.
Let us realise, value and cherish the beauty of life before it is too late.

The words and views expressed in my blogs are personal and are my original work of thoughts.

Self Help Is The Best Help

Blog by-Dr Jaya Kumar.

Whatever our dreams, we have to achieve them ourselves.

If we wish to lead a comfortable life, we have to work for it. Hard work and hard labour, both have to be done by us.

We have to do everything ourselves and only then shall we have the value of everything around us.

Sometimes it is easy to say things but difficult to do.

So it is better to do things and realise their true worth if we really want to cherish the essence of this life. The mantra to be followed is to do it on your own by volunteering yourself for hardwork. Always prove your dedication and commitment for the things or assignment which come your way.

This shall also give one a feeling of self satisfaction and we become self-sufficient.

We do not need to depend on others.

Self-help is the best help for physical, mental, emotional and spiritual growth.

Start doing things all by yourself. It shall make you more self-independent and confident.

DO IT YOURSELF AND YOU SHALL DEFINITELY FEEL PROUD OF IT....

The words and views expressed in my blogs are personal and are my original work of thoughts.

Lord Buddha- The Messenger of Tranquility

Blog by-Dr Jaya Kumar.

Buddha is an apostle of peace, love and tranquillity.

Tranquillity to explore our inner self. A supreme messenger of love, faith and harmony.

A peaceful messenger who spread the message of humanity among the masses.

Always remained in a meditative state and explored the purpose of our existence.

What for and why do we exist in this world.

Buddha made us believe that the path to achieving salvation is to first explore our own self.

To explore our hidden strengths and weaknesses.

Only a person who knows his flaws and imperfections can improve and walk towards attaining achievements.

Achievements of silence and bliss.

Let us understand Lord Buddha and try to follow his teachings. Let us adopt good practices of living in harmony and be peaceful in our life.

MAY LORD BUDDHA BLESS ALL...

The words and views expressed in my blogs are personal and are my original work of thoughts.

Guidance- A Powerful Force.

Blog by-Dr Jaya Kumar.

Every one of us needs good guidance at every stage of our lives. Guidance is necessary to get on to the correct direction to be followed. It helps us to focus on ourselves more than we ever did.
Sometimes our personal problems occur due to our less exposure and knowledge of a particular subject or field. With proper and correct guidance, many of our problems can be sorted out. We could even get the right path we were always looking for.
Good guidance from a reliable source and a trustworthy person surely brings a positive change in our lives.

Sharing of experience and knowledge becomes a guiding force.
Guidance can boost one's confidence and acts as refreshing energy.
If anyone needs our guidance at times, we should be ready to give it wholeheartedly. Guidance can also bring one's life back in order.
We all share a bond as humanity which binds us inherently. Correct guidance can also be a great saviour for the whole humanity as it can become a great problem solver for the society.

The words and views expressed in my blogs are personal and are my original work of thoughts.

Daughter-In-Love

Blog by-Dr Jaya Kumar.

Some people are born to inspire others either by their optimistic persona or by their beautiful words. Words which touch the heart deeply. The love and warmth in the words spoken by that person can be seen in his eyes. His delighted and joyful face reflects his happy and blessed state of mind. Sharing and becoming a part of his happiness and joy too becomes a blissful moment for us. Recently me and my family became a part of a similar blissful journey of a person whose life mantra is to inspire others.
The occasion was the wedding reception of his dear son. As me and my family entered the venue, I could feel a loving warmth all around. The decor had a beautiful grace and grandeur.
We were welcomed with a bright smile and great joy by the father, a man with an inspiring personality. He was looking dapper and very handsome. More than his looks, his eyes were filled with love. Love to receive all his guests who had come to bless his children. The immense love for his son and and the newly wed daughter-in-law was clearly visible in his eyes.
Then the joyful moment came when the lovely newly wed entered the venue. It seemed like the venue had lighted up with sparkling and shining stars.
Me and my family too wished the couple for a long, loving and caring togetherness in life.

I feel that personal blessings and wishes are the best gifts we can give on a special occasion like this. Blessings to start the beautiful bonds of various relations in life.
Relations that should not just be 'bound' by the law but instead should have a 'bond' of love. Love that is pure and true for the relations we are attached to dearly.
This love I could feel and see that day in the eyes of our inspiring man, the groom's father.
He exhibited that relations are a bond of affection and mutual respect.
He proved that we should feel a great sense of utmost happiness and joy for one of our best relations, the apple of our eyes, our loving child.
Seeing our child start his new life with his soulmate should be one of the best and the most awaited moments for any parent.
This new, delicate and dear relation begins and blooms but infact is technically bound by the law.
Later, on the big reception stage and in front of his family, friends and the professional fraternity he openly and most happily announced something that caught everyone's attention. He said that this 'bound by the law' can be turned into the most precious 'bond by love' when for his daughter-in-law he become her 'in-love' instead of 'in-law'. He through his loving words said that their 'daughter-in-law' has from now become their 'daughter-in-love'.
The love which he clearly and genuinely showered on his 'daughter-in-love' by becoming her 'father and mother-in-love".
His words became a benchmark. Though my son is still very young but I could relate to his affectionate feelings of love and joy for the happiness of his children.
The depth of his words and his open declaration of his affection and attachment towards his newly wed 'daughter-in-love' is a lesson. A beautiful lesson which could be a solution to many marital adjustments and dischords.
When our loving sisters and daughters are similarly so dearly and lovingly welcomed in their new families, every relation will bloom beautifully.
You feel very happy at heart on these occasions. I felt this nice emotion that day and really wished that his each word comes true for every daughter-in-law in this world and she too becomes a 'daughter-in-love'.
Let us be inspired by those who surprise and energise everyone with their positive and loving energy. A new and a beautiful thought by them for a new beginning of love and beautiful relations.

The words and views expressed in my blogs are personal and are my original work of thoughts.

Attitude Changes Things

Blog by-Dr Jaya Kumar.

Some people have a big attitude problem. They assume themselves to be on the top of the world.
The simple hearted and true people for them are a passe.
Their so called 'high status' in the society becomes the reason of their attitude in life.
They cannot tolerate the rise and growth of a person who is putting his hard work to achieve a position in the society.
Their egos become bigger than their personalities.
They cannot stand to look comparatively less than others even in their wildest dreams.
The others who were never important or a relevant identity for them.
The others who they considered to be inferior to them in all aspects throughout their lives.

But they forget one greatest and biggest truth of life.
That is that time can surely change everything any moment.
Success and status should infact be a reason for increase in one's modesty.
Attitude should be more as a gratitude behaviour.
Infact we should be a person who can be happy in others success.
The feeling of pride should be an asset and a feeling of self motivation to rise and grow everyday.
The feeling of pride should keep us grounded.
Otherwise our pride and attitude changing into jealousies and egos will ruin our own beautiful life.

The words and views expressed in my blogs are personal and are my original work of thoughts.

Happy Birthday-Tomato Princess.

Blog by-Dr Jaya Kumar.

Life is awesome. If we see life from a child's eyes it seems really awesome.
You will like everything about life. You will start appreciating life every moment with a beautiful smile.
Smile of a little Red Princess who eats tomatoes and strawberries to get a charming red glow on her cute innocent face.

Tomatoes are like a positive attitude and strawberries is our optimistic approach towards life.
A life which is worth loving. A child teaches us to be an innocent charmer by appreciating all the good deeds.
A child is learning and growing everyday to become even more sweet with every passing day.
So let us be like a child who likes everything most lovingly. The child who you wish to bless every moment.
The child who celebrates everyday as her birthday. By enjoying and valuing the feeling of love and affection.
Let us be like a child we wish to say,' Happy Birthday' sweet 'Tomato Princess'. Stay blessed always.
Happy Birthday to all beautiful people who love this life dearly.

The words and views expressed in my blogs are personal and are my original work of thoughts.

'Daughter-in-Love'.

Blog by-Dr Jaya Kumar.

Relations should not be bound by law but instead should have a bond of love. Love is pure and true for relations we are attached to very dearly.
Relations are a bond of affection and mutual respect.
We feel a great sense of utmost happiness for one of our relations, the apple of our eyes, our loving child.
Seeing the apple of our eyes starting his new life with his soulmate is one of the best and the most awaited moments for any parent.

This delicate, new and dear relation begins, blooms and is bound by the law.
This 'bound by the law' can turn into the most precious 'bond by love' when for the new daughter-in-law her 'in-laws' become her 'in-love'.
The Love which is openly and genuinely showered on the 'daughter-in-love' by her 'father and mother-in-love".
It then becomes a benchmark for others to follow.
Let us be inspired by those who surprise everyone with their positive and loving energy. A new and a beautiful thinking by them for a new beginning of love.

The words and views expressed in my blogs are personal and are my original work of thoughts.

Learn from the elderly the art of living.

Blog by-Dr Jaya Kumar.

Let us learn from the elderly the art of loving and living this beautiful life.
The elderly lead a disciplined life. They follow a structured routine to keep themselves fit and updated.
The elderly who even being at the dusk of their age still have dynamic energy like the bright rising sun.
The energy which they use to keep themselves updated and also motivate the younger generation.
Life for them is to live everyday with dignity and grace.
Life is purposeful for them. They even create some meaningful purpose from even the normal day to day activities.
They can be leading a retired life but suddenly not a tired life.

They volunteer themselves for community services wholeheartedly.
Imparting their life experiences and sharing them with their younger generation also becomes a reason for them for updating their own communication skills.
It is upto the younger generation to use the best of an opportunity in the company of an intellectualy inclined senior.
To become motivated seeing the optimistic approach of the elder shall also lead the younger generation to a correct direction.
The direction which shall be value based.
The teachings which shall keep the younger generation grounded and well connected to their roots.

The words and views expressed in my blogs are personal and are my original work of thoughts.

Happy Valentine's Day

Blog by-Dr Jaya Kumar.

Love is all around. The winds nowdays are filled with this loving feeling.
We can feel the loving vibes everywhere.
Love is one of the most beautiful and pious feelings. 
It is a feeling of to be admired, cared for and loved by someone who is really very close to your heart.
A feeling to be loved by someone special. Love has no boundaries. It can be expressed in many different ways. 
The beauty of love is like a vast ocean. Here the heart speaks it's language and the eyes express the feeling of being in love.
The love among soulmates has vastness of the sky, brightness of the sun and calmness of the moon.
Love is not dependent on giving or receiving expensive gifts but is a promise of valuing and respecting each other so preciously and adorably.
The sweetness of our care and affection is matchless in front of all those expensive chocolates, sweets and gifts.
The blossom and glow on each other's faces as lovers is incomparable.

It has more radiance and beauty than even the loveliest of flowers on Earth.
The commitment to be supportive to each other in all thick and thin for life is not dependent on one particular days celebration.
Understanding the maturity of love and rising and growing in love everyday by celebrating every day as a day dedicated to love is real love.

The words and views expressed in my blogs are personal and are my original work of thoughts.

Happy Mahashivratri - The Bond of Shiv-Shakti

Blog by-Dr Jaya Kumar.

Shiva, the Lord of Power. Shiva, the God of Majesty. Shiva, the Almighty whose existence is his beloved Parvati. It is with her Shakti that he becomes the epitome of power.
Shakti, the ultimate, has all the power of the universe.
She is an epitome of strength and courage.
Shakti is love. She is care. She is affection. She is precious.
She is delicate. She is head-strong. She stands against the wrong.
She has so many faces and her personality is not easy to understand.

She is simple and sweet sometimes and is aggressive and protective fighting against the evil at other times.
Even Shiva is incomplete without Shakti.
Likewise, with your loved one on your side, your inherent inner powers and strengths can come out beautifully. The odds and evils of our life can also be fought if the pillar of our life is with us.

Ups and downs, sorrows and joys, pains and pleasures, everything is part and parcel of our life. The thing to remember is and what matters is that Shiva is nothing without Shakti and Shakti is Shakti because Shiva is there for her in all thick and thin. Therefore, value the bond we share with our beloved life partner.

The words and views expressed in my blogs are personal and are my original work of thoughts.

Happy Hug Day

 Blog by-Dr Jaya Kumar.

A Hug speaks thousands of words. It speaks about the love, warmth and affection of a person who is giving you the hug.
A hug can give positive vibes. Though sometimes a hug gives us a feeling of formality.
A formality which the other person is fulfilling without adding any affection.
Sometimes a hug becomes a hug for a lifetime. A hug which is full of blessings and liking for each other.

A hug can take you a very long way. A hug can be full of emotions and sentiments.
It is like an unsaid promise made to the person you hug.
A loving hug is like an assurance of being loved.
A hug is like a lifelong bond started with a pure-hearted love.
Let us enjoy this beautiful and blissful feeling of loving protection and care with the most tight hug to some you care for.
Have a day full of loving hugs today.

The words and views expressed in my blogs are personal and are my original work of thoughts.

Happy Promise Day

A promise is a promise to be kept forever.
A promise of love.
A promise of respect.
A promise to become better with each passing day.
A promise to keep our national responsibilities before ourselves.
A promise to be more responsible and mature in thoughts and actions.
A promise with a friend to be a friend forever.
Showing our sincerity towards our friendship.

A promise with our relations. Relations which we shall most lovingly fulfill all our lives.
A promise to keep our ego and jealousies away from us.
A promise to our soulmate to stand with each other forever.
Promises have no ends.
But the biggest promise is with oneself.
A promise to never break any promise in life. Let us keep all our said and unsaid promises to lead a more happier life.
Make your own promises on this Promise Day.

The words and views expressed in my blogs are personal and are my original work of thoughts.

Happy Teddy Bear Day

Blog by-Dr Jaya Kumar.

The cuteness of a teddy bear just steals our heart. The beautiful furry teddy is one of the most famous stuff toy.
It really looks adorable and loving. Though silently lying on a bed, a teddy bear always looks affectionate.
Teddy bear is inanimate but we still feel a life in it.
The cuddling with teddy bear makes us feel like a child again.

As children we keep a teddy bear who is really dear to our hearts. Hugging a teddy bear gives an affectionate feeling.
Bear as an animal is also very adorable. Seeing the furry and fatty bear we instantly develop a liking for it.
Bear cuddle with their children so lovingly that their this joyful act is really pleasurable to watch.
On this cute Teddy Day dedicated to teddy bear for their loving hugs, let us also give a warm and a loving hug to those who are very near and dear to our hearts.

The words and views expressed in my blogs are personal and are my original work of thoughts.

Happy Chocolate Day

Blog by-Dr Jaya Kumar.

The yummylicious Chocolate is irresistible. It just melts in our mouth and leaves an unforgettable taste.
The sweetness of a chocolate has a magical flavour.
Chocolates, Chocolate Cookies and Cakes blend so well with our taste buds.
Chocolates are also a very good option for the heart.
The Chocolate is dark but still has the magic to lighten our mood. Using a Chocolate scrub and a Chocolate body lotion also is like a refreshing and rejuvenating journey for our skin.
Chocolate also becomes a reason for celebrations. A perfect gift to share the sweetness among our loved ones.

The combination of Chocolates and coffee tops the list of the most favorite culinary combination in the world.
Chocolate is for every season and all happy reasons.
It is universally loved by people of all age groups. Once we start developing a liking for it, it shall culminate into a love forever.
A loving bond between you and Chocolate.
So on this Chocolate Day let us lift our moods up and enjoy this day with sharing of Chocolaty sweetness amongst our loved ones.

The words and views expressed in my blogs are personal and are my original work of thoughts.

Happy Propose Day

Blog by-Dr Jaya Kumar.

On this beautiful occasion of Propose Day, let us Propose in Style.

Then why not celebrate the love in the air.
Let us bring out our young hearts and enjoy the loving vibes flowing all around.

A Proposal of love in any relation is one of the most beautiful feelings. It is not only for the 'lovey-dovy' hearts, but also for those relations which we respect and admire.
Showing our open admiration for our respectful relations increases the essence of this day even more.
Life is to grow everyday.
In our life we meet so many people who really motivate us directly or indirectly through their presence and actions.
This beautiful day also gives us an opportunity to express ourselves most humbly and gracefully.

The charm of the love between soulmates and sweethearts too can increase manifold if we really value each other.
The moments we are together.
Sometimes the words become less but the depth of love is unmeasurable.
On special days let us cherish the love between two hearts.

The essence of celebrations is that we can enjoy everyday as a joyful and loving festival.

The words and views expressed in my blogs are personal and are my original work of thoughts.